Tọlá Belva
Writer, poet, and a butterfly in her 𝘴𝘰𝘧𝘵 era.
Category: Motivation
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Some relationships, like seasons, come to an end—and that’s okay. There are people I once held close, whose presence I cherished, but our paths have naturally diverged. The connection we shared, though meaningful, has shifted into a memory. This realization isn’t born of bitterness but from understanding that not all relationships are meant to last.…
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A little birdie whispered that With Love, Meghan has become the talk of the world, and it’s easy to see why. Meghan, Duchess of Sussex, has once again stepped into the spotlight—not for controversy, not for speculation, but for something entirely her own. A show that feels personal, warm, and, above all, real. For years, Meghan has…
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While scrolling through Instagram on my lunch break, I stumbled upon a post by Dasha Kennedy, founder of thebrokeblackgirl.com. Her words hit home. Dasha’s message is a reminder that we don’t have to conform to society’s rigid deadlines. Instead, we can shift our focus from fixed deadlines to flexible timelines. Her insight prompted me to reflect…
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Thanksgiving morning on this side didn’t exactly begin with the warm, cozy vibes you’d expect. No smell of roasting turkey, no cheerful holiday music. Instead, it started with me launching into a coughing fit that probably made my neighbors question if I was trying to communicate with them through ‘Morse code.’ The flu, which had…
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Have you ever felt like life was testing the very limits of your emotional resilience? Maybe it was during a heated argument with someone you love, or perhaps it happened when an unexpected challenge at work made you question your own abilities. In those moments, how did you respond? Did you allow your emotions to…
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In the quiet moments of our lives, when the world’s noise fades into a gentle hum, we often reflect on unfulfilled dreams. Once vivid and full of possibility, these aspirations can seem overshadowed by the ticking hands of a clock or the relentless march of a calendar. Yet, what if we paused to consider that…
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Happiness is a shape-shifter, wearing many faces, and speaking different truths to each of us. For one, it’s the quiet triumph of watching their savings grow like drops of rain slowly filling a pond. For another, it’s landing the job they’ve dreamed of, a wish granted by the universe. For someone else, it’s the deep…
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The world often glorifies the extraordinary—filled with stories of grand achievements, viral moments, and lives that seem larger than life. These narratives dominate our screens and conversations, leaving many of us wondering if our quieter, simpler lives are somehow less valuable. But the truth is, the beauty of life often lies not in the extraordinary…
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There are moments in life when doubt creeps in and makes you question your worth. In those times, it’s easy to forget one fundamental truth: you are extraordinary, not by accident but by design. Like a masterpiece, your value isn’t determined by perfection but by the richness of your story. The trials you’ve faced, the lessons you’ve…
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